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I want my daughter back

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Posted: Thursday, October 17, 2013 10:07 am | Updated: 1:42 pm, Tue Nov 12, 2013.

                My name is Jennifer Lynn McDonald. I agreed in a civil contract to allow my daughter Shannon Elizabeth Obrien to be held in temporary custody via her Paternal (not really paternal or any DNA to my daughter, just an agreement that James Joseph Obrien IV signed her birth certificate as we were in a relationship) Grandparents Jim and Linda Obrien III. I was moving back to Florida and signed an agreement for 6 months temporary custody. The intentions were that when I established stability, a home and place of employment, I would get my daughter Shannon and bring her to Florida where she was born. Since then, I did come back as agreed with Janet Pruitt hired as an attorney. I was told that I would bring my daughter back to Florida so I acquired a car seat and clothing and diapers as needed to transport Shannon back via rental vehicle to Florida. Linda and Jim O’Brien’s attorney prevented a hearing by stating that the Judge was a visiting Judge and Not a regular Coryell County Judge. I was not permitted to  even have a hearing. First, Linda and Jim Obrien told the visiting Judge I did not communicate with them and then I proved that to be a lie by bringing in copies of email conversations between myself and the O’Brien’s email address. Since then I have felt powerless. For a year and a half Linda and Jim did not allow me to visit  or talk to Shannon, due to the visit we encountered at the courthouse where I was bullied to not have a hearing. I have been trying to appease Jim and Linda Obrien, feeling I have no choice but to do whatever they want me to, in order to see my daughter and in hopes they would just give her back to me. Linda led me to believe if I accomplished certain tasks in my life agenda, she would bring Shannon to visit me, then she said Shannon could stay for a summer, and then come live with me. Linda told me that I must acquire my Registered Nurse Degree and get a Job as an RN in order to get Shannon back. Well I have been working full time and raising my other two  children, I married and he has 3 children. I have been going to State College of Florida School part time for four years. Now Shannon is 8 years old. After completion of this semester I have one more Gordon Rule Math course Liberal Arts Math, to complete and I will graduate with my AA Degree. I am then to transfer to a private college Galen University in Saint Petersburg to obtain my Registered Nurse Training and acquire my Associate in Science Degree. Once I complete the State Board Exam, I will be able to obtain employment as a Registered Nurse. Here is the problem. I am doing what I agreed upon verbally and  contractually. Linda and Jim Obrien are not . Neither their contractual agreements are honored, nor their verbal promises, and continual excuses of why I cannot have my daughter back. Finally, I am coming for a visit scheduled for November 15-17. Linda Obrien told me that she did not ever want to give Shannon back to me because their life is revolved around Shannon. I told her that she genetically is not Shannon’s Grandmother, but she still insists I never get custody of my daughter. I feel helpless. My rights are gone. I feel like my daughter was stolen and I will never get her back. The intentions of the 6 month  temporary custody was just to be temporary. I feel like I was tricked and my daughter has been taken. I feel like it doesn’t matter if I become a doctor, the law should uphold the contract agreement and a social contract, according to Thomas Hobbs, morally should be withheld and protected by the state(court). The truth should be honored in a moral society and I should be given my daughter  back. Will you please tell me why I am not protected by my intentions to be Shannon’s mother. Since this, James Joseph Obrien, who signed the birth certificate died in Jim and Linda Obrien’s home. He died of Pneumonia at the age of 42 years of age. I think it was from overdose from the pain medications he received from a physician and combination of alcohol. That is why I was relocating away from Texas to Florida, because of the drugs and alcohol with their son James. I wanted to make a better life for Shannon. I don’t deserve to lose her forever for improving my bad situation. If you look in your court documents for their son James J Obrien IV you will see that after I left in 2007, James got in a lot of violent legal troubles.  Please answer my plea and tell me what I can do to have my daughter.

                                                                                                Sincerely, Jennifer (Holder) McDonald

                                                                                                (941)462-7547

                                                                                                1001 30th st west

                                                                                                Bradenton, Florida 34205

                                                                                                jenmcdonald50@aim.com

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